Month: April 2007

  • Shootings

    I am quite sad over the shootings at Virginia Tech’s campus yesterday.  What is to keep such madness from happening at Lehigh? At Grove City? At Penn State?

    Even so, come quickly, Lord Jesus.


    Thirty-two people were shot dead at Virginia Tech university by 23-year-old Cho Seung-hui. Below are the names of the victims who have been identified.


    EMILY HILSCHER


    Emily Hilscher

    Emily Hilscher, 19, from Woodville, Virginia, was studying animal and poultry sciences, and was known in her hometown as an animal lover.

    Some reports have suggested Emily was Cho’s girlfriend, but police have denied this.

    Family friend John W McCarthy said: “She worked at a veterinarian’s office and cared about them her whole life.”

    She lived on the same floor of West Ambler Johnston Hall as fellow victim Ryan Clark, where she was killed.

    One friend said of her on Facebook: “She was so filled with life and always had something wonderful to say or was always making me smile.”

    RYAN CLARK


    Ryan Clark, Virginia shootings victim

    Student counsellor Ryan Clark, 22, from Martinez, Georgia, was in his final year studying for a triple major in biology, English and psychology.

    Known as “Stack” by his friends, Ryan was a member of the Marching Virginians campus band.

    He was the second victim in West Ambler Johnston Hall.

    His friend, Gregory Walton, said: “He was just one of the greatest people you could possibly know.”

    PROFESSOR KEVIN GRANATA


    Professor Kevin Granata, victim of Virginia shootings

    Professor Kevin Granata, from the Engineering Science and Mechanics department, carried out orthopaedic research in hospitals before joining the university.

    He was regarded as one of the top five biomechanics researchers in the US for his work on cerebral palsy.

    Fellow professor Demetri P Telionis said: “With so many research projects and graduate students, he still found time to spend with his family, and he coached his children in many sports and extracurricular activities.”

    PROFESSOR GV LOGANATHAN


    Professor G V Loganathan, Virginia shootings victim

    Professor GV Loganathan, 51, lectured in civil and environmental engineering and had won several awards for his teaching.

    He had served on the faculty senate and was an adviser to about 75 undergraduate students.

    Professor Loganathan moved to the US from the southern Indian state of Tamil Nadu in 1977 to teach. He had worked at Virginia Tech since 1982.

    His brother, GV Palanivel, said: “For us it was like an electric shock.”


    PROFESSOR LIVIU LIBRESCU


    Professor Liviu Librescu, Virginia shootings victim

    Professor Liviu Librescu, 76, was a Romanian-born Israeli academic in the Engineering Science & Mechanics Department. He was also a Holocaust survivor and moved to Virginia in 1985.

    Internationally renowned for his research work, he has been hailed a hero for blocking a doorway to protect his students.

    His son Joe said he had received e-mails from several students who said he had saved their lives.

    CHRISTOPHER JAMES BISHOP


    Professor Jamie Bishop

    Jamie Bishop, 35, was an instructor in foreign languages and literatures teaching German and he helped organise the Virginia Tech exchange programme with a German university.

    He was formerly a Fulbright scholar at Christian-Albrechts University in Kiel and colleagues there said they were “deeply, deeply shocked by his death”.

    On his own website, Jamie said he had lived in Germany for four years and “spent most of his time learning the language, teaching English, drinking large quantities of wheat beer, and wooing a certain Fraulein”.

    That “Fraulein” was his wife Stephanie Hofer, who also teaches at Virginia Tech.

    JOCELYNE COUTURE-NOWAK


    Jocelyn Couture-Nowak, Virginia shootings victim

    Canadian Jocelyne Couture-Nowak was a French instructor. Her husband, Jerzy Nowak, is the head of the horticulture department at Virginia Tech.

    She was the mother of two girls.

    Jocelyne, who had previously lectured in child development, was described by one Virginia Tech student as “an excellent teacher” who was “extremely nice and understanding”.

    In the 1990s, she lived in Truro, Nova Scotia, and was instrumental in creating the town’s first French-speaking school.

    MINAL PANCHAL


    Minal Panchal

    Minal Panchal, 26, who was from Mumbai (Bombay) in India, was in her first year of a masters degree in building science.

    She had a degree in architecture from Rizvi College in Mumbai, and was passionate about it because her father is himself an architect.

    DANIEL PEREZ CUEVA


    Daniel Perez, Virginia shootings victim

    Daniel Perez Cueva, 21, was from Peru.

    He was studying international relations and was killed in a French class.

    REEMA SAMAHA


    Reema Samaha, Virginia shootings victim

    Reema Samaha, 18, from Centreville, Virginia, was a freshman (first year) and a talented dancer.

    Her brother, Omar, watched her perform at a street fair the day before she died, but said: “I never got to say goodbye.”

    Her sister, Randa, said Reema’s family had tried repeatedly to contact her but without success: “So we drove down here praying for the best and just preparing ourselves for the worst and that’s what we got, we got the worst.”

    Reema was a pupil at Westfield High School, where the gunman, Cho, also studied.

    MATTHEW LA PORTE


    Matthew La Porte, Virginia shootings victim

    Matthew La Porte, 20, from Dumont, New Jersey, was a freshman in university studies.

    He graduated from Carson Long Military Institute in New Bloomfield, Pennsylvania, in 2005.

    JARRETT LEE LANE


    Jarrett Lee Lane, Virginia shootings victim

    Jarrett Lane, from Narrows, Virginia, was a senior (final year) in civil engineering and a valedictorian of Narrows High School.

    There he played the trombone, competed in athletics and played football and basketball.

    The school has erected a memorial in his honour bearing photographs, musical instruments and his athletic jerseys.

    Jarrett’s brother-in-law, Daniel Farrell, said he was “full of spirit” and added: “He had a caring heart and was a friend to everyone he met.”

    ROSS ALAMEDDINE


    Ross Alameddine

    Ross Alameddine, 20, from Saugus, Massachusetts, was a sophomore (second year) English major. He was shot during a French class.

    Friends described him as “an intelligent, funny, easy-going guy” in a memorial posted on internet networking website Facebook.

    His mother, Lynnette, was angry at how long it took to inform parents about the shootings: “It happened in the morning and I did not hear until a quarter to 11 at night.”

    CAITLIN HAMMAREN


    Caitlin Hammaren

    Caitlin Hammaren, 19, from Westtown, New York, was a sophomore reading international studies and French.

    John P Latini, principal of Minisink Valley High School, where she graduated in 2005, said: “She was just one of the most outstanding young individuals that I’ve had the privilege of working with in my 31 years as an educator.”

    MARY KAREN READ

    Mary Karen Read, 19, from Annandale, Virginia, was born in South Korea into an Air Force family and had lived in Texas and California.

    Her uncle, Ted Kuppinger, said: “She was a beautiful girl, very caring and loving.”

    Her aunt, Karen, said she had struggled to adjust to Virginia Tech’s sprawling 2,600-acre campus, but said she had recently begun making friends and was looking into joining a sorority.

    She was killed in French class. She had yet to declare her main subject of study.

    JUAN RAMON ORTIZ


    Juan Ramon Ortiz

    Juan Ramon Ortiz, 26, was a graduate student in civil engineering.

    He was married to Liselle Vega Cortes and came from Bayamon, Puerto Rico.

    His father, also called Juan Ramon, said: “He was an extraordinary son, what any father would have wanted.”

    DANIEL O’NEIL


    Daniel O'Neil

    Daniel O’Neil, 22, of Rhode Island, was a graduate student in engineering who also played guitar and wrote his own songs, which he posted on a website, www.residenthippy.com.

    Friend Steve Craveiro said: “He would come home from school over the summer and talk about projects, about building bridges and stuff like that.

    “He was pretty much destined to be extremely successful.”

    Daniel also worked as a teaching assistant at Virginia Tech.

    MAXINE TURNER


    Maxine Turner

    Maxine Turner, from Vienna, Virginia, was a senior studying chemical engineering.

    She was described in a web tribute as “an absolutely amazing, intelligent woman”.

    HENRY LEE


    Henry Lee

    Henry Lee was from Roanoke, Virginia.

    He was a freshman, studying computer engineering.

    LESLIE SHERMAN

    Leslie Sherman was a sophomore in history and international studies.

    ERIN PETERSON

    Erin Peterson, 18, was a freshman. Her father Grafton said: “My baby didn’t make it.”

    JEREMY HERBSTRITT


    Jeremy Herbstritt

    Jeremy Herbstritt, 27, was from Bellefonte, Pennsylvania.

    He was a graduate student in civil engineering.

    JULIA PRYDE

    Julia Pryde was a graduate student from Middletown, New Jersey.

    MICHAEL POHLE

    Michael Pohle, 23, was from Flemington, New Jersey.

    PARTAHI LUMBANTORUAN

    Partahi Lumbantoruan, 34, from Indonesia, was a civil engineering doctoral student and had been studying at Virginia Tech for three years, said his father, Tohom Lumbantoruan, a retired army officer.

    “We tried everything to completely finance his studies in the United States,” he said.

    “We only wanted him to succeed in his studies, but… he met a tragic fate.”

    LAUREN MCCAIN

    Lauren McCain, 20, of Hampton, Virginia, was doing international studies.

    BRIAN BLUHM

    Brian Bluhm, 25, formerly of Detroit, was a graduate student in civil engineering and was doing a masters in water resources.

    AUSTIN CLOYD

    Austin Cloyd, from Blacksburg, Virginia, was a first year in international studies and French, and wanted to be a US ambassador.

    Her former pastor, Rev Terry Harter, said Austin was a “very delightful, intelligent, warm young lady” and an athlete who played basketball and volleyball in high school.

    Her family had moved from Illinois to Blacksburg, when her father took a job in the accounting department at Virginia Tech.

    RACHAEL HILL

    Rachael Hill, 18, was from Glen Allen, Virginia.

  • It’s Been a Hard Day’s Night

    Okay, it was a miserable Tuesday last, but praise God for those dear friends who heard my distress and took to their knees on my behalf. The effective prayers of a righteous man (or woman!) avails much indeed.


    So, here I am, back to Xanga. I realize it was only a week, but it seemed like much longer to be away from all you dear folk. I am keen to begin responding to your posts. Yes, I did peek a bit and see what many of you were up to, but I refrained from commenting. I told myself that I would not even so much as reply to anyone, even though I went to several comment boxes. But, I held back.  Yes, I realize my life seems rather pathetic. 

    On Saturday, a whole herd of teens landed at my house to make movies all afternoon. What fun! We wound up with four “films”:  The Ultimate Plane Crash, the story of an Ultimate Frisbee team who crashes and has a Frisbee match to the death with natives; Romeo and Juliet, Y’all, a western version of R&J where R supposedly gets run over by a hay wagon and J runs off with Indians; WonderBoy, where WonderBoy is thwarted in his attempts to save the girl by his brother, Constructoman, and NastyMan keeps things interesting; and James Bond and the Rubix Cube of Death, a James Bond thriller where Gold and Finger steal the secrets of the UN locked in a Rubix Cube.  (I think Rubix is actually Rubik’s, but they spelled it “Rubix.”) After we ate pizza, we watched all the movies on a big screen and gave out awards. 

    This week is full to the brim with The King of Peach Fuzz–dress rehearsals Tuesday and Thursday and performances on Friday and Saturday.  Hunter sang one of the songs in church on Sunday morning and impressed quite a number of people who had no idea he could sing!  We are not a clapping church.  After special music, the most one can normally expect is a chorus of “Amens.” But, in both services, people spontaneously clapped! I feel this is a good sign that the play will go well.  Perhaps I should look for augury in the fall of a sparrow instead of in the clapping of Baptists.

    I don’t know if any of you are planning to come to see the play, but if you can, please do! You will enjoy yourself a great deal. (Or I’ll quadruple the money you paid for your ticket!)  It’s not only Hunter’s singing-actor debut, but it is my first play ever to be performed!  I’d post some pictures from practice, but they all turned out rather poorly.  You will just have to come and see it for yourselves.  Perhaps  I’ll be able to post some (or a video!) after Tues. or Thurs.

    I was wondering if you could tell me the highlight (or low-light) of your week since I feel I missed so much.  What’s good or bad in your life right now?


  • Au Revoir

    Until my life calms down somewhat, I shall be off the computer for a while.  That means I won’t be checking your Xangas either, which is sad, as I do enjoy hearing about all your lives.  If you do want to get in touch with me, feel free to email me (or message me, which alerts my email).

    Take care and remember your overwhelmed friend.

  • Up from the Grave He Arose!

    Happy Easter evening to you all, or perhaps you prefer Resurrection Sunday? Either way, I hope your day was blessed.

    We began the day by getting ready for church and eating our usual Sunday breakfast, one each of those pop-open tubes of rolls, caramel, cinnamon, and orange. TGD and I have been eating those buns since we were first married. But then, we just needed one tube a week!  After breakfast, we hid the children’s Easter baskets and laid out their gifts. Since Easter is a time of celebration, we give the kids some presents in addition to all their jellybeans and chocolate. Snorkels and flippers, Bibles, shirts, a backpack, and and iTunes download card were among some of the gifts.   Next, we took our usual Easter pictures, although the four or so inches of snow kept us indoors this year. 

    All the children




    The girls
    (Little Miss was unhappy and didn’t want to be photographed.)


    The guys


    We headed off to church where TGD taught Sunday school and led singing, Hunter ran the sound board, and LibbyK and I served in the nursery. It is a privilege to serve the Lord by serving others!  After church, I took my crockpot full of ham to bkroeker and flutemom’s house (home also of ghostfroggy, kleinekatze, wesjanson, and dance4eternity, and one more!)   Our pastor and his family and a college student also joined us in food and fellowship.  Speaking of fellowship, how much fun can four people have playing Password?  A lot, apparently, especially when bkroeker is not on the winning side!  


    The younger set also had a lovely day, as evidenced by this picture of Little Miss (now smiling) and GhostFroggy. 


    Many thanks to the K’s for having us over!

    Did your Easter go as planned? What are some fond memories you have of this Easter or of Easters long gone?

        

  • Good Friday

    This Friday is good in many ways. First, of course, it is the day we remember Christ’s death for us. “
    Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Hebrews 12:2).  Another reason my Friday is good today is that the four younger children are at an all-day sports/evangelism day with swimming and pizza.  Hunter and I are at the library where he is supposed to be doing school work and I am to be working on my book. In actuality, he is reading and laughing quietly, and I am fiddling on Xanga.  In about a half an hour, I head out to lunch with sarabelle7 while Hunter dines with TGD.  Strangely enough, there is NOTHING on the schedule for tonight. We are sure we must have forgotten something, because a free evening is so rare–and so very good!

    Here’s a funny tale from yesterday. Thursdays are our days of running, and this one was even more packed than usual. I was in line at the library, halfway through the day, when I noticed a long string on my skirt. Unwisely, I pulled it. 

    “Ah! I am removing the hem from my skirt!” I thought in a panic as black thread seemed to spring from nowhere at the lightest touch.

    I begged a pair of scissors from the librarian at the circulation desk so I could cut instead of pull. But, the damage was already done; I had removed all but five inches of the stitching holding my hem in place. 

    “I still have six hours before I go home! I can’t have a floppy hem. What to do?”

    I went into the children’s department of the library (wonderful ladies), explained my dilemma, and asked for some tape. “I know just what you need,” one librarian said. “This tape held my skirt in place all day.”  I gratefully took the packing tape and sat down to repair my ravaged wardrobe.  It must have been Men Bring Your Children to the Library Day as about six dads walked by as I had my hem flipped up and my slip exposed.  I nodded sheepishly an murmured, “Just repairing my hem” to their unspoken questions and averted eyes.  

    And, the librarian was right! That tape held up all night!  I will sew my hem back in, though.  The tape scratched a bit.

    Did you ever have an embarrassing clothing disaster? 

  • Bread and Beauty

    Today,
    the weather took a nosedive. From what I’ve read, I think that most
    people had their high-70s days turn into rainy, 40 degree ones with
    snow predicted. Yuck.  To be a cheerful soul, I made homemade oatmeal
    bread today. Of the two loaves I pulled out of the oven at 12:45, two
    slices remain. This family can do some serious damage to homemade bread
    in four hours!  Gockel is making supper for us–tacos. I am one
    pampered woman.


    Juliepersons featured a self-portrait challenge in one of her entries. I’ve been thinking about it, coupled with aj1965‘s
    question about accepting compliments and my friend Andreana’s comment
    in a letter a while ago about how we as women need to think of
    ourselves as beautiful and tell each other that we are beautiful.  I
    get caught in the trap of “not quite good enough.”  Oh, if I just had a
    different (insert body part). If I could just lose (insert number of
    pounds). If I just had (body part) like so-and-so. If I were X years
    younger… Why do we do this?  We are women, created in the image of
    God! We are beautiful!
    You
    are unique and beautiful!  I don’t care how many wrinkles you might
    have or how many rolls around the middle.  You are truly beautiful. 


    There. I’ve had my rant for the day.   Take a minute to compliment yourself. What is wonderful about you?

    Now,
    if you don’t want to answer that question to the world, I’ll ask a
    different one. Of all the compliments you’ve gotten, which ones stick
    out in your mind the most?



  • For the Glories of the Earth

    On a day like today–sunny, low 70s, and gorgeous–it’s hard to believe that this world is fallen and sinful. How much more glorious will the earth be when Christ returns?

    I am taking full advantage of this sunshine and am sitting in a lounge chair on the deck with the laptop in my lap. (Well-named device, eh?)  LibbyK is off being a mother’s helper. The other children are reading/working on the last bits of school. Hunter is strumming the guitar and crooning a song of his own making.  And, I don’t have to make supper. I’m not much of a cook on the best of days, but on sunny days, I’m wretched.  Since we have a lot of late-afternoon running about, we are just going to have lunch meat sandwiches. 

    The daffodils are swollen yellow, about to burst forth in all their Wordsworthian glory. I don’t  have any crocus, or I suppose I’d wax eloquent on them as well.  We have a bird which is trying to build a nest in the wreath on the front porch. While the thrill of a bird, eggs, and babies is vastly appealing to us, it is also terribly enticing to the cat. My humanitarian streak will prevail and we will bring the wreath indoors for a week or so to aid the ill-advised home builder.

    I’m feeling so lazy here in the sun. Which is better: to nap in the sun in a lounge chair or to nap in a dark room in your cozy bed?

  • Put Me in my Place!

    I thought it was very appropriate that today’s Word of the Day from Dictonary.com was this one:

    arriviste a-ree-VEEST, noun:

    A person who has recently attained success, wealth, or high status but not general acceptance or respect; an upstart.

    Ha ha! 

    Many people have said, “So, what do you get if you win this contest?” The answer is NOTHING!  Instead, I will make up my own rewards.

    1. I get dinner at Quaker Steak and a trip to see Amazing Grace with TGD.
    2. I get breakfast with eatyourweightincheesepuffs. (Please?)
    3. I get lunch with Sarabelle7. (Please? Friday?)
    4. I get to sit at the library all day Friday and write my book.
    5. I get unlimited chocolate chip cookies today, unless Wit eats all of them.

    What would you have chosen as your reward?

  • Cookies

    I’m baking cookies right now–chocolate chip, except with dark chocolate chunks.  Mmmm.  Will these be cookies of consolation or a bite of victory?  I have until 11:00 EST to find out. Win or lose, it’s been such fun! I never realized how many non-Xangans read my blog. 

    It is rumbling
    thunder in a pleasantly ominous way. Rain is pelting, and the kitchen
    is illuminated by occasional bursts of lightning. I just love a
    thunderstorm.

    Since some of you don’t subscribe to the same folks I do, here are two great stories you might have missed.  Mamaglop is writing an excellent short story in installments called The Sandcastler.  Becktumfleck is telling the tale of her son’s horse, Storm, in an engaging episode format as well.

    I shall update with the final tally…

    EDIT–
    The contest was to end at 11:00 EST.  Here are the results.



    You guys are amazing. Thank you ten times over and more!