True Confessions
Okay, how many of you use your blog or emails as a way to chat with your husband or wife or to deliver daily information? I know that I do!
Pins!
I just got back from an eventful Penn State wrestling match against Michigan State. PSU won, their first win this year in the Big 10, despite an 8-2 (now 9-2) record. They gave out free pins to all who wanted them. Libby brought her embroidery, and I wish I had brought my crochet, although I did enjoy the match. The older boys were at Youth Group, and Michael went to the Wilsons, so it was just the good doctor, Rachel, Libby, and me (with two Bolichs). But, we did go out to dinner first!
Do I really LIKE wrestling? Well, high school and college wrestling is different from that horrid stuff on TV. I like most college and high school sports (and elementary things also), although I’m not a huge fan of any of them.
Yes, Michael really did put duct tape on all digital clocks, including the clock on the computer screen. We left the analog ones alone, as they are all upstairs, and I figured I wouldn’t get up there to see them during the day. And, Tim, I’m very sorry to hear your news. Hang in there! Jessica, I’d love to know which talent you’d like. The one for overcommitting? The one for loosing her temper?
Tomorrow, my “sister” goes home. She’s been staying with us all week. What? You didn’t know I had a sister? She’s about 18 pounds and rather hairy. Grammy Peep and Papa John’s beagle, Molly, has been a guest with us all week while her “parents” have been vacationing in Florida. She’s the most easy-going dog ever at ten years old, except she wants to sleep with Nathan, and she hogs the bed. So, he’s camped out on the floor all week so there is room for both of them. He’s a good dog-sitter!
Molly is quite cute.
So, tomorrow we head to Curwensville to drop of Molly. Also, Nathan gets to see his new bow–a rather expensive Hoyt bow that his grandpa got for him from a guy who shoots professionally for Hoyt. Nathan is just about beside himself with excitement. Also, I have a boatload of essays to grade for AP. Being sick and miserable this week, I got behind on my work.
Please be praying for two year-old Kayla. Her surgery is on Monday at 7:30 A.M. to remove skin cancer from her nose.
Sigh of Relief
Today was so much better. I feel as if I’m back to normal. Thank you so much for your prayers and well-wishes. After a day of Boggle, a Joan of Arc video, science, and a visit with friends, I feel rested. Then, tonight, we made popcorn and milkshakes and all laughed our way through Johnny English. Plus, I still have plenty of time left tonight for relaxing!
I’m strongly considering doing a play this spring with the high schoolers at church. I found one through BJU Press which is a 70 minute comedy with 13 parts. It seems as if it will be perfect. I ordered the script to check it out. Now, I just have to make sure that I’m really not over committing if I do the play. I love directing! It’s so much fun.
Tomorrow is going to be another relaxing day, although we probably won’t put duct tape over all the clocks as we did today. It’s amazing how time-dependent we all were! We have two Christopher Columbus videos, a read-aloud, and a game of Settlers of Catan that is calling to us. (Help us, Lord Jabez!) Plus, there are a few “official” school things that need doing, like spelling, vocabulary, math, and science tests. I guess it will only be mostly-fun.
I’ll leave you with another picture. (I don’t know what those purple flowers are in the Alamo picture, by the way!) This picture is of a sunset over Enon, Ohio, in July.
She Enjoys True Leisure Who Has Time to Improve Her Soul’s Estate ~ Henry David Thoreau (sort of)
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
~WH Auden
Ever have a day when you are worn thin from illness and several days of non-stop activity, when you feel that you might just collapse into a heap of tears if someone even speaks to you? Welcome to today.
I heard or read somewhere a story illustrating the work ethic differences between Africa and the USA. An American foreman drove his African crew to work quite hard one day. The next day, the foreman awoke, prepared to work hard again. He was dismayed to find his crew sitting around doing nothing. “Come on! We have work to do!” the foreman urged. “No,” one African replied. “We worked so hard yesterday that we must rest today to let our souls catch up with our bodies.” That is just how I feel today.
So, once the children are in bed, I will stop all the clocks and cut off the telephone. I will search out peace through prayer and scripture. I will make some hot tea and find a few cookies. I’ll pull out the novel and run a hot bath.
Then, tomorrow, I will plan to do the same. Saxon Algebra will not taunt me. The read aloud which has been beckoning will have its call heeded. Buttercream and vanilla-scented candles will be lit. Joan of Arc will play out her story on a DVD. And then, perhaps, all will be well, and all will be well, and all manner of things shall be well. (Thanks, Ruth!)
Sick Woman’s Lazy Blog
I’m just not feeling well. Instead of having a fever and a bona-fide flu, I’m just zapped of all energy with a bit of a head cold. I slept for about 12 hours last night which I am sure helped a lot. But, true to my act-dorky-in-illness persona, I made two pumpkin rolls today. I’ve never made them before, although my grandma makes killer ones, and I have her recipe. We are going to visit friends tonight, so I wanted something to take along. Plus, after lying in bed for an hour during lunchtime talking with my dear friend Valerie (who I discovered also reads this blog and should be noted!), I felt much peppier.
Just to fill up some more space here in the blog, I’ll tell you about my love of photography. Thanks for all your kind comments, by the way. I have a Kodak Easy Share 4 mega-pixel digital camera with 10x optical zoom. I dearly love it. (Note to Linda U. who might be reading–don’t get interchangeable lenses! Get 10x zoom!)
Here are a few of my favorite pictures which I’ve taken. I really like photographing flowers, and I’m not so good with portraits. I’ll have to work on that.
Picture from an ice storm last year.
Rhododendron in my garden in May.
Flowers from the Alamo in San Antonio, TX.
And, here’s Libby’s best picture, taken this past summer. (She was 10 yrs. at the time.)
Prose and Cons
Please forgive my pun. I do so love them. Thanks to Cassandra for tickling my funny bone with her “Teasing.” Also, thanks to everyone who’s been commenting. I really appreciate your feedback on the site, via email, and in person. Plus, I’ve so enjoyed visiting the sites of others. KID6896, I hope you and yours are soon healthy again. Jess, I am glad you aren’t cooking for us. The good doctor is especially glad. Also, he keeps meaning to ask if there are any folks in Rob’s department who still remember him (TGD, not Rob).
I know you’ve all been all on tenterhooks waiting for more poetry from Sara Teasdale, so I won’t keep you waiting!
Faults
They came to tell your faults to me,
They named them one by one;
I laughed aloud when they were done,
I knew them all so well before,–
But they were blind, too blind to see
Your faults had made me love you more.
Twilight
The stately tragedy of dusk
Drew to its perfect close,
The virginal white evening star
Sank, and the red moon rose.
As you know, I’ve been convicted about my reading choices. I’ve struggled with not wanting to do what I know I should. (And to be honest, I still am struggling.) I’ve finally asked God what He would have me to do. “Put away all detestable things from you,” was a verse we discussed in Sunday school (Jeremiah 4:1), and that was the first thing that came to my mind. I need to get rid of the books that I would be embarrassed to have someone open at random and read, the books I wouldn’t hand to my children. Isn’t it ridiculous that I’d even have books like this in my house to begin with? Yikes! So, pray for me as I begin to purge.
As I thought about this “purge,” I thought, “I can’t get rid of X, Y, and Z. I’ve spent money on those! They weren’t used books. I bought them new!” Once again, the word of God convicted me as I was reminded of those Ephesians in Acts who burned all their magic books: “And many of those who practiced magic brought their books together and began burning them in the sight of everyone; and they counted up the price of them and found it fifty thousand pieces of silver.” (Acts 19:19) Oh, boy, the Word of God truly is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword! Plus, I’ve only spent about $50 on books. But, even if I had spent $50,000, at what price should I value obedience? Why is obeying so hard!
But, on a happier note, I finished a great book last night, Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends. It is written by three siblings, the Mallys (who were ages 22, 16, and 12 at the time of writing). I’m planning to use it as a read aloud for Bible time for the children. We have been struggling with the friendliness toward one another. Plus, what I read in the book convicts me as well. “You should criticize one time for every ten times you praise.” Gulp!
Tonight is our church’s annual “gonna-take-two-hours-to-read-reports” business meeting. I’m planning to take the new scarf I’m crocheting. Yes, I know this seems a bit untoward, but is it really that horrible to do a handicraft while the Building and Grounds minutes are being read?
Recipe for Rhyme
Here is the recipe, as requested.
Beverly Capone’s Most Delicious Yogurt Pound Cake
1. cup soft butter
1 1/2 cup sugar
3 eggs
2 1/4 cup flour
1/2 t. salt
1/2 t. baking soda
1 t. grated lemon rind (I never add this.)
1 t. vanilla
8 oz. yogurt (any kind without pieces of fruit. I like lemon the very best.)
Cream butter and sugar. Beat until light and fluffy. Add eggs one at a time and beat well after each. Add flour, salt, and baking soda. Mix well. Add the rest. Mix again. The batter will be quite thick. Place in a well-greased bundt pan and bake for 45 to 60 mins at 350.
This cake travels well, so it’s ideal for church events.
Tim, thank you for your very convicting comment. After I posted that review, I began to think about the same issue myself. Why am I reviewing a book and making it seem acceptable when it doesn’t honor God? Would I want Libby to pick up this book and read it? Would I really want my name to be associated with wholehearted recommendation?
Remember how I said that I had started that Beth Moore study, Seeking Him, and the great prayer list? Guess where I felt that I failed the most? In the sections on purity. Here, below us, we have an excellent example of my failing in the area of purity. It is such a temptation for me to read inappropriate books because they sound entertaining or look really good (“The lust of the eyes and the lust of the flesh…). So, when God brings me to mind, will you pray for me? I especially would like prayers that these things would hold no allure for me. I must confess that they glitter like diamonds. “I gave, I gave it all for thee; What has thou given for me?”
I did get a book in the mail yesterday which I would like to review. When I was in high school, the first poet I “discovered” on my own was Sara Teasdale. (To read about her sad life, go HERE.) Her poetry has always held a special place in my heart since then. I checked the Collected Poems of Sara Teasdale out from the Curwensville Public Library so often that when the binding finally fell apart, they asked me if I’d like to keep the book (which I did). Then, I loaned this most precious volume to someone without writing down to whom in my book log and I lost it! But, yesterday, I received a new copy of this book and have been enjoying it. I’ll share one of her most famous poems, one of the ones I like a lot. I’ll share some more later.
Barter
by Sara Teasdale
Life has loveliness to sell,
All beautiful and splendid things,
Blue waves whitened on a cliff,
Soaring fire that sways and sings,
And children’s faces looking up
Holding wonder like a cup.
Life has loveliness to sell,
Music like a curve of gold,
Scent of pine trees in the rain,
Eyes that love you, arms that hold,
And for your spirit’s still delight,
Holy thoughts that star the night.
Spend all you have for loveliness,
Buy it and never count the cost;
For one white singing hour of peace
Count many a year of strife well lost,
And for a breath of ecstasy
Give all you have been, or could be.
Now You’re Cooking!
Last night I couldn’t sleep and was up until 2 am. This insomnia might have been due to the fact that my light was on and I was reading, of course, but you never know. I began and finished Sophie Kinsella’s The Undomestic Goddess last night, and I’ll review it at the end of this post.
Yesterday was a hectic day full of running, but there were some delights. I received an FTD box full of tulips from a student and his parents as a thank you for writing a recommendation letter on short notice. I really liked the card, “How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a weary world. ~William Shakespeare” I like receiving such wonderful quotes!
We dined on the tastiest venison roast last night. No, it really was seasoned and cooked to yumminess. But, I still have trouble eating it. “This is venison. This is a dead deer. Uck.” chants through my head. Why is it that freshly-caught game free from preservatives and chemicals makes me squeamish when I happily chow down on other meats from unknown sources? Why this weirdness in my mind? Surely I’m not the only one.
Yesterday I began our read aloud time again. Every year since we began homeschooling, the hour from 11:00 to 12:00 has been read aloud time. I’ve tried to move it to a different time slot, but it’s never worked. I’ve begun reading one of my all-time favorite books, The Wolves of Willoughby Chase by Joan Aiken. It’s got all my favorite elements for a children’s story–orphans, extreme wealth, evil governesses and headmistresses, suffering, cozy cave houses, nifty clothes, and a happy ending. I’ve never read any of the sequels, but I might just do so this year. I was struck this time as I read it at the high level of vocabulary for a children’s book. I made no mention of this fact, but about a half-hour into our reading, one of the children commented, “This sounds like a book written by Eugene Meltzner.” (EM is a pedantic character in the radio show Adventures in Odyssey.) I think it’s great, but I won’t spoil the story by making up vocabulary study sheets.
Also, Libby made Beverly Capone’s Most Delicious Yogurt Pound Cake yesterday. I don’t believe this is the true name of this tasty and simple dessert, but that’s our name for it. Yum! It was first cut into after church (about 9:00 pm), and there are only about four slices left today for lunch. If you are eager for the recipe, I’ll pass it along.
Thank you for all your reading recommendations. As you can see, I’ve read one book. I will have to make a concerted effort to get some Chesterton. Strangely, my library has a dearth of his books. But, since I have access to all of Penn State’s library system, I’m sure I’ll find a book or twenty. I’ve read Ellis Peters in the past and found her books to be good, but I only read about four Brother Caedfel books. Mysteries aren’t my most-preferred genre, although any well-written book is worth a read.
Tonight is the end-of-the-year banquet for Centre Bulldogs football and cheerleading. We’ll get our yearbooks and DVD of the year’s highlights. I’ve been informed that the good doctor features heavily in the video, a fact which does not thrill him. He’s a great guy and a great coach, and I’d make him the star of my season’s highlights video!
Thile, welcome back from Florida! I hope you had a wonderful time.
A review of Sophie Kinsella’s The Undomestic Goddess
I enjoy an occasional chick-lit book, and I’ve been hearing things about Kinsella’s Shopaholic series for a while. So, when I saw this novel on the library shelf and since MathMom recommended it, I thought I’d give it a try.
The novel opens with Samantha Sweeting, a 29 year old British corporate lawyer, filling out a questionnaire to determine her stress level. It’s obvious from the start that this likeable lady has her priority list of of whack, as does the rest of her family. On the eve of the meeting to determine whether she will become her firm’s youngest partner, an encounter with her elderly, tounge-clucking neighbor foreshadows future events when the neighbor mutters how sad it is that Samantha can’t even sew a missing button onto her shirt.
Samantha, already high-strung, is even more so when she arrives at work the next day, anticipating what the decision will be regarding her partnership. To relax, she begins to clear mountains of paperwork off her desk. In so doing, she finds a month’s-old memo saying that she was to file some paperwork. With horror, Samantha realizes she’s made a beginner’s blunder. The situation escalates when she discovers that this blunder can’t be corrected and that she’s lost a client 50 million pounds. In shock, she flees the office and randomly hops on a train out of the city. Lost and heartsick, wandering through some small town, she decides to ask for an aspirin and water at the next home. In doing so, she is mistaken for a new housekeeper applicant and due to the “stronger than aspirin” medicine she is given, isn’t thinking straight
Samantha decides to salvage her life and pretend that she really is a housekeeper, especially since she has become a laughingstock in the legal world. Predictable disasters occur with this can’t-boil-water type. Thankfully, there is a hunky gardener, Nathaniel, whose mother teaches Samantha on the sly how to cook and clean. Predictable consequences follow with the handsome gardener.
Just when Samantha is accustomed to her new life and really thriving, a discovery sets her head spinning and causes her to question what she wants out of life–the new or the old. What is most important to her?
There is occasional swearing and mild sex (mentioned, not explicit). The scenes at times can seem a bit “movie-ish” (especially the ending). But, the characters are all very likeable. The nouveau-rich employers, the gardener/pub owner/boyfriend, the crazy best friend who also happens to be titled, even the stern head lawyer at the firm all are nicely crafted and enjoyable to read about.
If you are looking for a light-hearted read which might make you think a bit about your own chaotic life, then this might be a nice evening’s read for you.
Lap-sitters, Lady-Day, and Licentious Leanings
What do you do when you don’t have a child small enough to want to
crawl up on your lap and still fit there? Rachel is six, and she still
fits fine. I was just thinking about that problem today when
Rachel crawled onto my lap for our prayer time. I’ve had a
lap-dweller for the past fourteen years. I’ll miss it when it’s all
gone. I suppose that’s why people have small dogs and grandchildren.
Thank you for your book ideas. Actually, I have The Undomestic Goddess
in my pile of books from the library! I don’t know what it is I
am looking for. I’m like that crabby toddler who stomps and rages and
demands everything because she doesn’t know what it is she really
wants. (Which just might be a nap…) I’d appreciate
recommendations in all genre (genres?).
I’ve begun a Beth Moore book study, Seeking Him,
as a ladies’ Sunday school class at church. There is a wonderful
prayer list in the book which takes different areas of our lives and
asks leading questions. Are you quick to repent? Would you
be willing to give up all sin for God? Do you keep your eyes and mind
pure by not reading books or watching movies or TV which would not
honor God? It’s convicting, but I think that we (I) must act on our
convictions for them to be effective. It’s just not enough to feel it.
We must also act upon it.
Tonight, the kids are so excited because we are going to watch an hour
long History Channel movie on Christopher Columbus. “Is it a
reenactment or is it just some guy saying, ‘Christopher Columbus
lived…’” asked Libby with a deadpan drone for the narrator. Ah,
can’t you feel the joy and pulsing pleasure those children have in the
evening’s plans?
I finally finished reading What Jane Austen Ate and What Charles Dickens Knew
by Daniel Pool. It was a great book, and I highly recommend it
for anyone who enjoys 19th century England, history in general, or 19th
century English authors.
The book is composed of two parts. The first is a topical overview of
all aspects of everyday life and society in 1800s England. What
did they eat? How did they farm? How did they keep clean? Who had a
higher social standing? What did the poor and the orphans do? All
of these questions and many more are answered in an easy-to-read and
entertaining way. The second part of the book is a glossary
of terms which might be unfamiliar to the reader of 2006. When is
Lady-Day? What’s a costermonger? What exactly is a
pelisse? This second section would be particularly useful if one
needed to look up an unfamiliar term while reading Dickens or Austen or
any of the many other 19th century writers.
I think I just might buy that book.