Month: December 2005

  • Well, I still
    don’t fully understand a blog ring. So basically you sign up and
    nothing happens?  I’ve decided to test the waters and have applied
    for membership in a blogring of people I do not know. But, judging from
    the pictures, blog entries, and bios, they seem to be just like many of
    the people I do know and name as friends.  I’m a bit nervous in my
    post tonight as I assume the approver and others will soon be swooping
    to my site to make sure that I’m worthy of inclusion, and I have
    nothing worthwhile or edifying to say!  Tim, can I borrow a post?

    I would love to know who the 1168 different individuals are who have
    viewed my site.  I set up a per-distinct-user web counter, not a
    per-hit counter.  So, unless I am very mistaken, many folks have
    stopped by this snowy woods, and my little self doth think it queer
    that I only can account for about sixty folk.  Then there are the
    serendipitous, like Zach, who know me and wandered here by accident.

    But, now on to the real issue I come to address in this post: do you
    think my font is too small? I’d be glad to make it larger for better
    read-ability, but I don’t want to make you feel as if you’ve stumbled
    into the Large Print section of Xanga.  (Does anyone else put a
    book back on the library shelf if it can only be had in large print?)

    Tomorrow night is the big, annual New Year’s Eve bash.  The good
    doctor is leading the prayer service at church before, so the
    festivities won’t start until 8:15 or so.  Thankfully, I do appear
    to be healed, so I’ll be able to play Trivial Pursuit until 4:00 A.M.
    like last year.  Bring on the Boggle!

    We finished listening to Inkspell
    tonight. It was wonderful, but it had too much swearing. Next time,
    I’ll have to read it aloud myself and edit judiciously as it turns out
    that Inkspell is the second
    book of a trilogy!  You should have seen the looks on Nathan and
    James’ faces when the story just ended with all those loose ends. 
    “You mean we have to listen to another fifteen hours?” And then, when I
    said the third book wasn’t even written yet, the looks of disgust were
    even more pronounced.

    I’ll end with a favorite joke.

    Two goldfish were in their tank. One turned to the other and said, “You man the guns and I’ll drive.”


  • Question:
    Can someone explain to me the purpose of a blogring? When I ask it of
    Xanga, I get blogrings titled “What’s a blogring?”  What happens
    when you join one? Do you get all the posts of all the people in the
    ring? Why would you want to join one? Just to meet other
    bloggers? 

    I am sick, for those who are interested.  I slept 14 hours
    yesterday and 14 hours the night before. But, today, I feel better for
    the most part.  We’ll see how my healing progresses. I haven’t
    even wanted to read!  Hopefully, I’ll be all healed for the big
    New Year’s Eve party at our house.

    Also, Rachel had her follow-up in Hershey yesterday. It seems the
    surgery was mostly-successful, so on February 2, she’ll have “the cat
    mask” again.  (She calls the surgery which uses anesthesia to
    knock her out “the cat mask” because the anesthesia mask is a “cat
    mask” to her.)  The doctor feels that after this round
    of outpatient surgery, 100% of her reflux will be gone. 

    We just watched the Clean Flicks version of Monty Python’s Holy Grail.
    If you are ever feeling low, just invite Michael to sit on the couch
    with you and watch this movie. He laughed hysterically through almost
    all of it.  The introductory credits almost had him in tears of
    uncontrolled laughter. 

    I’m off to procure a shrubbery.


  • Merry Two-Days-After-Christmas!  We are home from a fun time at my
    mom’s house.  Unfortunately, the cold I thought would be all gone
    by now has settled in for a long winter’s nap.  It will probably
    turn into one of those miserable hacking cough things soon enough, but
    for today, I just feel all thick-headed and tired.

    Christmas was delightful this year.  I thought I’d show you everyone with a favorite gift.

    Rachel received a REAL American Girl Doll from my mom, Grammy Peep, and
    Papa John. She hasn’t yet decided what to name it and is debating
    Courtney or Megan.  Many new doll outfits were also unwrapped.

    Libby got the long-desired American Girl Doll horse. She purchased the
    AG pony for Rachel, so we now have a full stable behind our living room
    couch. 

    Here’s Michael with his new electric motor scooter. David got one
    for his October birthday, and Michael had wanted one ever since. 
    December in PA isn’t the best time for an outside toy, of course!

    Nathan got several wicked-looking knives and a saw. Here he is with the retractable deer-gutting knife I got him.

    David got a Game Boy Advance from my Peep and Papa John.  We
    occasionally hear him speak, but mostly it’s, “Oh, did you see that!”
    directed to Michael, who is usually peering over his shoulder.

    James poses with his new flip-phone from Tracfone. Now he won’t be so out of style lugging around his big, old cell phone.

    Here I am with the pillow sham from my new bedroom comforter set. 
    I’m so excited!  I’ll have a new look to the room. Plus, the set
    is much nicer in person than it was in the catalog, a fact which just
    tickles me!

    James, that dear man, took Nathan and went on a Wal-Mart run for a milk, OJ, 
    and Nyquil run. I would have gone, but I feel lousy. I need to rest up because
    tomorrow Rachel and I head to Hershey Medical for her follow-up visit
    from her surgery two months ago.  This visit will tell us whether
    or not the surgery was successful and if she needs to continue her
    maintenance antibiotics. Rachel is looking forward to the visit because
    we hopefully will finally get to try out this new restaurant we’ve been
    meaning to try on our last few visits down. It had been closed before
    (family business on vacation!), but hope springs eternal.

    The kids have worked hard today and seem to have all caught an
    organizing and cleaning bug. Wish it were contagious and long-lasting!
    Right now, they are having a break and are watching the Jim Carey Grinch movie. 

    Thank you to all who sent Christmas cards, letters, pictures, and email
    greetings. It was so fun to catch up, even if only a little bit.


  • ‘Tis the season to be sickly.
    Cough, cough, cough, cough, HACK!
    Now blow your nose!

    Today was a lovely day which was not spoiled even though it included a flat tire and a 35 minute wait in a Sears Auto Repair center watching Country Music Television.  Every year for many years now, my mom and I go shopping for a whole day, usually on the 23rd of December. We didn’t have a single thing we needed to buy, but we enjoyed spending the time with one another, eating out, looking for good deals, popping Day-Quil, and asking, “Do you have a tissue?”  It seems that both of us were in the throes of miserable colds, so we both had noses like Rudolph and sounded like Typhoid Mary as we phlegmatically made our way through the mall in Altoona. 

    Tomorrow being Christmas Eve Day, we will visit my dad and family.  My step-sister Ashley is a dead-on present-buyer. She seems to instinctively know what each of my children would want, and usually it’s something I hadn’t even considered myself! She introduced us to the Barbie movies (which, despite my initial prejudices, I found to be quite entertaining) and David to a portable CD player.  So, I’m excited to see what wonders she thought of this year. 

    Christmas Eve we will either spend at Faith Baptist Church or at home doing our own Christmas Eve service complete with lit candles and the singing of Silent Night. I will have to bake the birthday cake for Jesus so that the kids can decorate it. 

    Christmas morning, for the second year in a row, we will open our Sellers’ presents here at the house. Then, we will load up and go to my mom’s to be joined by my Grandma Norris, Grandma Wright, and Aunt Kay Kay for the opening of presents again. After feasting on ham and cornflake potatoes, we plan to head up to my Grandma and Grandpa Bressler’s house to visit with my dad’s side of the family.  Then, it will be back to my mom’s house where we will lounge around for the next day or so, possibly going to the movies the night of the 26th.

    So, there you have our Christmas routines. 

    I ran across an interesting column by Anna Quindlen which you can read HERE.  I found the second half, beginning with “The cycle of the devotional year…” quite interesting.

    May everyone reading have a blessed Christmas! 


  • My goodness!
    Surely you jest, Jessica!  So many Austen-neophytes. Jane Austen
    isn’t for everyone.  Mark Twain hated her books.  Here are a
    few of the things he had to say about her:


    “Jane Austen? Why I go so far
    as to say that any library is a good library that does not contain a
    volume by Jane Austen. Even if it contains no other book.”

    “To me his prose is unreadable–like Jane Austin’s [sic]. No there is a difference.
    I could read his prose on salary, but not Jane’s. Jane is entirely impossible.
    It seems a great pity that they allowed her to die a natural death.”

    “I haven’t any right to criticise books, and I don’t do it except when I hate
    them. I often want to criticise Jane Austen, but her books madden me so that
    I can’t conceal my frenzy from the reader; and therefore I have to stop every
    time I begin. Everytime I read Pride and Prejudice I want to dig her up and
    beat her over the skull with her own shin-bone.”

    Ah, that Twain!  Personally, I’ve never felt the need to exhume an
    author to beat her with her own bones, but it makes for fun imagining.

    Despite these aspersions, Jane Austen  was and is loved by
    many.  If you were to read an Austen novel (and there are only six
    of them not counting unfinished ones),  I’d start with Pride and Prejudice,
    her most famous.  But, you might want to just watch the movie
    first. If you hate the movie, then you’ll more than likely not enjoy
    the book.  Take the easy way out!

    I am pleased to say that I finally finished the Hamilton bio. I learned
    so much about Federalists and the early formation of our government
    system and…wait! Wake up!  It really was quite interesting. I
    recommend the book wholeheartedly. 

    I got a treat in the mail today, a book I ordered from Amazon which
    wasn’t supposed to arrive before Christmas. It’s the final book in a
    trilogy telling the story of Pride and Prejudice
    from Darcy’s point of view.  The first two were great (okay, the
    first one and one-third were great), so I’m eager to dive in. 
    (See what passion Austen devotees have?  We spend $15.95 for fan
    fiction!)

    Tonight was sibling night, the evening the children exchange presents
    with one another.  We played all-family hide-and-seek and several
    rounds of Boggle (Guess who won?) and dined on Papa John’s pizza and
    had milkshakes.  Libby delighted Rachel by getting her an
    American Girl Doll pony and AG doll eye glasses.  Legos,
    Playmobil, an antler mounting kit, a wallet, and a watch comprised the
    other exchanged gifts.  Tim223
    joined us one year for this event.  Here’s a picture of the
    picture David drew for Nathan as one of his gifts.  Unfortunately,
    it’s not the best shot, although my camera flash resembles a sunset.

    A special welcome to anyone who is reading my blog due to the Christmas letter. Welcome, Lydia!




  • Jane Austen Guide to Dating

    Don’t you think I
    look as if I have buck teeth in my picture? It’s actually a good picture in real
    life.

     Here’s a bit of
    wonderful writing by Abby Farson, former student.

    “I like
    December. I like how it sneaks up on you and tickles your toes and pretends
    that it’s really not a happy monster that is going to eat away at your time and
    your wallet and your sanity. It acts like a kitten that is pleading to be
    picked up on the side of the road. And then, against your better judgment, you
    let it in. And the moment you do, it won’t stop mewing about peace and goodwill
    to men and then it starts shedding Christmas cheer all over your furniture and
    your sweaters and your fireplace. And then January hits and it’s gone like
    that. Despite my speculations, I miss it when it goes.”

    I’ve always
    enjoyed Abby’s writing and thought you might, too.

    The family is
    ailing with various types of colds.  No
    one is really sick, just enough to be disgusting occasionally.  It makes us all low-key and slower.  But, the day and week allow us to be running
    at a slower pace. Ah, December!

    I’m an aunt again!
    The good doctor’s brother (Chuck) and his wife (Jen) are the proud parents of a
    new baby born yesterday, Kyle Adam.  His
    older brother, Ryan, is 8 years old.  So,
    it’s almost like starting all over again in the baby world.

    This week ought to be a fun one for me. Tuesday,
    I go out to lunch with a friend (Sarah C.) and grocery shopping.  Friday is my mom’s and my big shopping day in
    Altoona. We do it every year, whether we are
    actually in need of any Christmas gifts or not. 
    Also, we usually eat breakfast at Eat-n-Park and supper at either Olive
    Garden or Red Lobster.  Mmmm!  I’m not in need of any presents, but it’s fun
    to look.

    The book I have
    highlighted above was an interesting read. It’s not designed for the Christian
    or for the teen, but it had a lot of practical advice for those who are dating
    and a lot of interesting comparison of the real world and Jane Austen’s
    characters. I think the author’s dissertation would be neat to read. It is on
    courtship rituals in Jane Austen’s books.

    Just wondering—have
    any of you never read a Jane Austen novel?

  • Currently raving about
    Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, and the  Wardrobe

    Yesterday afternoon, the kids and I went to see Narnia.  I liked it even better than Lord of the Rings!  I thought I might really enjoy it when I was crying at the second scene. Fortunately, I didn’t spend the rest of the movie weeping.

    But, why wouldn’t I have enjoyed the film? I have my own Peter, Susan, Edmund, and Lucy. (And a Mr. Tumnus, as Michael said he would like to be)  Is it such a stretch to imagine Nathan as Peter, the older, slightly bossy brother who is willing to take up the sword to defend country and family? It’s not impossible to picture David as Edmund who makes an unfortunate choice, tries to make it right, and winds up being just as brave as the rest. Or Libby as Susan, the sometimes-snippy older sister who deep down is wonderful. Which leaves Rachel as Lucy (sans glasses), precocious, wanting to be believed and believing. As I watched it, I was imagining my own family in similar straights, but I was still enthralled by the action on the screen.

    Rachel, on my lap, covered her head with her coat through some parts. There are real battles and hacking and chopping, the scene where Aslan is killed is creepy, and there are numerous “surprises” in the movie guaranteed to make one jump in her seat!

    Hopefully the movie will be at the Ritz Theater in Clearfield on the 26th when we are at my mom’s after Christmas. We can all see it again and take the good doctor for his first showing. I love to go there–$3.50 movie tickets, a large drink and large popcorn total $3.00, and all refills (drinks or popcorn) are half-price.  


  • I’m finding it
    hard to believe that over 700 different people have looked at my Xanga
    site in the past two months since I put the web counter on.  Other
    than you faithful folk, I’d not know that anyone was reading! 
    But, I get emails and comments (hello Thile!) that there is an
    audience for my Internet missives.

    This month has been such a delight. We have had more evenings at home
    just relaxing and hanging out than we had in the past five months
    combined.  Last night after supper, we all assembled in the living
    room–Christmas tree lights glowing, the fireplace flickering, and the
    house smelling of vanilla and buttercream–to listen to Inkspell
    on tape.  Then, James challenged all the children to a wrestling
    match. If they could flip him onto his back in fifteen minutes or less,
    then everyone would get ice cream.  David tried to organize the
    kids into a powerful juggernaut, but they just randomly exerted force in
    opposing directions. James was laughing so hard, he was almost in
    paralysis, so they eventually pinned him. 

    Here’s a great picture of the kids I got last Sunday after church. 

    Apples of Gold, our monthly babysit-a-bunch-of-kids-at-church ministry,
    went extremely well yesterday, except for the pizza.  It seems the
    order called in right before our order for eight pizzas was an order
    for 18 pizzas!  Needless to say, we had to wait a while. 

    Tonight is  Nathan’s Homeschool Orchestra concert. He’s got his
    trumpet all ready for those yuletide carols and gay apparel is all
    ready to be donned. (Well, except for his shirt and pants, which are in
    the dryer…)  Before the concert, the good doctor is taking us to
    Denny’s for Kids Eat Free night.  Now that we only have three
    “kids,” it’s not as much of a savings. I’m really looking forward to a
    Nilla Chilla–a vanilla Coke. I had one a few weeks ago and have been
    dreaming of it since.  The taste from a can just isn’t the same!

    Last night at dinner, I asked the family, “What Christmas present do you want that you KNOW you won’t be getting.” 

    James–Our mortgage stamped “Paid in Full”
    Mary–A three-month sabbatical to England/Europe with all expenses paid
    Nathan–A 243 Winchester Model 70 paired with a Bushnell 4x scope
    David–Imperial Star Destroyer from Lego (the $299 one)
    Libby–A baby sister
    Michael–A dog
    Rachel–A baby

    So, what do you want?

  • Just when I thought all the women disliked Rachel’s haircut, I got positive feedback. I know bangs are “out,” but her hair actually looks nice to passable almost 90% of the time now. I’m thrilled!

    Today, I am working on the Christmas letter, some AP things, and the calendars.  What are “The Calendars,” you ask?  Since Christmas 1992, I’ve been making photo calendars for various family members.  It started out with my taking 12 photos to Kinko’s and having them make the calendars to what I have been doing ever since I got “computer savvy,” which is to design and print them myself.  (Someone else still binds them.)  I enjoy the process, but it seems to be taking an unusually long time this year to assemble the pictures from my computer. Before, I’d just visually scan the photo album and then computer scan all the worthy pictures and go from there. Since I have my digital camera now, everything is already on the computer, so I just have to search for things, even though all the pictures are tidily organized.

    Speaking of tidy, would any of you describe me as a “neat-freak”?  I thought not, and, Mom, you can stop laughing.  Yes, I’m organized, but that does not make one a neat freak. For example, I have a tidy pile of DVD recording things sitting on the floor by my DVD recorder area.  Tidy? Uh. Organized? You bet!   Why am I blathering about being labeled a neat-freak?  I took a personality test. If you take it,  share your results. I couldn’t get my results to paste onto my site. 

    I am just about totally finished with all my Christmas shopping.  In lieu of gift cards for some family members, they are getting cash in a pretend “gift card” envelope.  Cash–the universal gift card!  But, others get gift cards and presents.  I’ve been wrapping as I’ve purchased, so I don’t even have anything to wrap.  I do have to unwrap a few things and return them to the store as the Christmas snow pants are unnecessary as I found free ones at church.  James vehemently dislikes the constant clothing exchange happening at church–and he’s right; it does look messy–but I really appreciate it! 

    The Christmas cards are starting to arrive, including an ADORABLE picture of LoeschDogg and kristenloecher‘s kids.  My kids marveled with open mouths (particularly Libby) at how big Kendall was and how much she looked like Kayla. Again, I was asked, “When are they coming to visit?”  (Consider yourselves invited!)


  • Where’s the beef? 

    It’s not at the Sellers’ house, for sure, as we ate our first meal ever
    of venison! Nathan shot a five-point buck last Monday, and I finally
    crock-potted the meat into a tasty meal.  We even shared some of
    it with our new neighbors who seemed to like it as well. Maybe they
    were just really hungry… Actually, it was quite tasty, and the good
    doctor even ate it. Considering his squeamishness, it was a personal
    triumph.

    To read the most entertaining Xanga post I’ve ever seen, go HERE.  The good doctor was prostrate over his laptop.  I think RJDohner wins for the renaming. 

    Yesterday, I cut Rachel’s hair. I want it to be pretty, but it is just
    like mine–thick, slightly curly, and very inclined to frizz. Plus, she
    is also blessed with several cowlicks to add to the hair melee. 
    Since Rachel cares very little about her hair and would be happy with a
    buzz cut, I took the scissors to it.  What do you think?

    Strangely enough, I am all caught up with my AP work. I still feel as
    if I have a ton to do.  It must be like the phantom pain people
    have when they’ve lost a body part. There is nothing there, but it
    feels like there is.

    I’m still working my way through Alexander Hamilton and am learning so
    much. Did you know that one of the most controversial issues of our new
    government was whether or not we should have a national bank? Also did
    you know that Alexander Hamilton and the Treasury Department created
    the Coast Guard?  Such fascinating bits of history!  (I can
    feel your fascination from here.)